Every gal knows that one of big staples of wedding attire is the veil. This tradition has held true throughout the years, as well as in a variety of cultures. But lately, I’ve noticed that this tradition doesn’t always have to take such a traditional course. Personally, I’m a fan of anything embellished with lace, but I’ve been admiring some more retro styles that give a bride’s look some spunk. With my indecisiveness, Mama always told me to get a second opinion, so this month I’ve teamed up with Fabulous Frocks and Kelly’s Closet to discuss trends and alternatives for this wedding custom. These insightful ladies offer up some intriguing and helpful advice on how to pick and style a veil that’s just right for your special day!
XO,
Kim, Chancey Charm Wedding Planners
Q: What effect does completing the look with a veil have?
Fabulous Frocks: I believe a veil is one of them most important accessories a bride can wear. They just have a magical effect to them. When brides are in our shop they look so beautiful in the gowns, but it isn’t until we add the veil that our brides have their “this is it!” moment!
Kelly’s Closet: A veil is a great final touch to give you that bridal look. For those gowns that may not scream “here comes the bride”, the veil leaves you with no doubt.
Q: Do you think certain veil styles compliment specific gowns? For example, what would be the best match for a long cathedral veil versus a birdcage veil?
FF: Absolutely! When the gown has a lot of embellishment we often opt for a simpler veil so that the two don’t compete. We might pair a simple cathedral veil with a more elaborate gown because it creates a shear window to highlight the back of the gown, rather than interrupting it in the middle. A birdcage veil creates more of a statement, so it typically works well with something a little more understated.
KC: Yes, certain veils work better for certain gowns. The bird cage veil is best on gowns with a vintage flare. Something with a 30’s – 40’s and 50’s influence. It also takes a certain personality to pull off a birdcage veil. While a simple raw edge long veil goes with just about any gown. This gives the bride a halo effect. If you did a lace edged veil, you would not want the lace to compete or clash with the lace on the gown.
Q: How would you recommend styling a veil to accompany a very elaborate hair-do?
FF: We might select a veil that is less gathered up top, so that the hair-do is more visible through the netting. The stylist can also place the veil lower or higher on the head depending on what works best with the hairstyle.
KC: The veil is the topper. It usually comes off after the ceremony so the bride needs to be happy with her hair with or without the veil.
Q: Do you think that wearing a veil is absolutely mandatory? Or can this wedding tradition be skipped?
FF: I’ll admit that I adore veils, and think there is a veil out there for almost everyone! However, we do have brides who feel more comfortable with a flower or comb instead of a veil. It totally depends on the personality of the bride.
KC: It can certainly be skipped. Nothing is mandatory anymore. We suggest that a bride at least try one on before making the decision to not wear the veil. Many times brides end up liking the effect of the veil. Also it is a mom-pleaser.
Q: Do you have any suggestions for brides that want to be a little less traditional? (e.g. floral crowns, jewel head pieces, etc.)
FF: The great thing about the bridal industry right now is that anything goes! With resources like Pinterest and all the bridal blogs available, brides are exposed to endless possibilities. Some brides are drawn to fresh flowers, while others will pin in a family brooch or delicate feathers.
KC: The veil is not mandatory so if it is not your thing, don’t do it. You should have something in your hair as a finishing touch. It could be a sparkly head band or comb, a wreath of flowers or single flower.
Q: What are some upcoming trends you’re noticing with veils? (e.g. colored veils, jewel encrusted veils, etc.)
FF: Our brides are still loving veils trimmed with lace but we are seeing more brides walk down the aisle with the blusher covering their face. We love the powerful moment the blusher provides as the father of the bride lifts it up, kisses his daughter, and hands her off to the groom. It is sure to bring tears to the on looking guests!
KC: Blushers are making a comeback. Also the Juliette veil is great for the vintage or boho bride. Jewel encrusted headbands under the veil are popular also.
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Great post! and thanks for featuring some of our lovely Vinewood brides. All my best, Jamie