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June 20, 2025

Designing a Wedding That Feels Like You—Even Far From Home

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One of the best things about having a destination wedding is immersing your guests in a beautiful new setting. But how do you make sure your day still feels like you when you’re celebrating far from home?

It’s all about balancing personal touches with the magic of the location. Here are a few ways to create a wedding that blends your unique style with the local flavor of your destination:

1. Start with Your Story

Before diving into Pinterest boards or venue tours, take time to reflect on what matters most to you as a couple. Are you drawn to classic elegance or casual coastal vibes? Do you have a favorite travel memory you want to incorporate? Maybe your love story began over weekend trips to wine country or beach getaways—these details can help guide your design choices.

2. Embrace the Destination, Don’t Compete With It

Let the natural beauty of your destination shine. If you’re marrying in Provence, lean into lavender fields, rustic stone textures, and that effortless French elegance. In Mexico? Celebrate with vibrant colors, tile patterns, and local textiles. The goal isn’t to recreate your hometown wedding in a new place—it’s to honor where you are while still weaving in elements that feel personal.

Photo Credit: Monika Frias Photography

Planner: Mart Mari Weddings & Events for Chancey Charm Weddings

3. Add Personal Touches to the Details

Small, meaningful details go a long way. Customize your welcome bags with items that reflect your personality (local treats mixed with your favorite snacks). Write personalized notes for each guest. Include a family recipe in the dinner menu or add a nod to your cultural background during the ceremony.

4. Choose a Palette That Connects

When selecting colors, consider both your personal style and what will complement the destination’s landscape. Earthy neutrals, soft pastels, or bold jewel tones can all work beautifully—just make sure they don’t clash with the venue or local surroundings.

5. Infuse Your Ceremony With Meaning

Your vows, music selections, and readings are where your story shines brightest. Choose an officiant who knows you well or a celebrant who will take the time to personalize the ceremony. Include traditions or rituals that are meaningful to you, whether they’re cultural, spiritual, or simply personal.

Photo Credit: The Stauffers

Planner: Mart Mari Weddings & Events for Chancey Charm Weddings

6. Work With a Planner Who Gets Your Vision

A destination wedding planner with experience in your chosen location is invaluable—but make sure they also understand your style. At Chancey Charm, we work closely with couples to blend personal design with the local aesthetic, creating a seamless and thoughtful celebration that feels both authentic and uniquely yours.

Remember: a destination wedding is about creating memories in a place that inspires you—and the most memorable weddings are the ones that feel true to the couple at the heart of it all. If you blend intention with inspiration, you’re guaranteed a day that’s beautiful, personal, and unforgettable.

Ready to plan a destination wedding that’s stylish, seamless, and deeply personal? The team at Chancey Charm is here to help you bring your vision to life—no matter where in the world it takes you.

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